You love her and she knows it! However instead of being content with this, you need to keep her happy, to make your marriage successful. If she is the best thing to happen in your life, you need to show your appreciation and love to her too. Wedding vows only told you that you need to keep her happy, not how to do it. In order to keep your wife in high spirits, you need to incorporate certain new habits in your life. Read on to know how to keep your wife happyand your marriage blissful.
Ways Of Keeping Your Wife Happy
Appreciate Her
Appreciate all the work she does for you. Think how hard your life will be when no one is there to cook for you or wash for you and search your car keys that you carelessly keep somewhere and don't seem to find. You know your life will be worthless without her. So, appreciate all the work she does for you.
Listen To Her
Most women complain that their husbands don’t listen to them. Make sure your wife knows that you pay attention to everything she says and keep it in mind too. Just like 'the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach', the way to a woman's heart is through your ears. Even if you do listen to your wife, instead of being a passive listener, be an active one. If you pick her daily after office, ask her how her day was and listen patiently if she wants to tell something.
Pampering Goes A Long Way
I know you have pampered her during your courtship. Remember how you used to cross five blocks, just to get her favorite chocolates? So what happened now? You love her more now. So, why not make her happy by pampering her. It may be something small, like massaging her feet after a long day at work or ironing her clothes before she wakes up. Do all these and we guarantee that she will fall for you all over again!
Help Her In Household Chores
This is one of the surest ways to make your wife happy. You don’t need to take off all the burden and start cooking, cleaning and mopping, all by yourself. However, you can give a hand in something she is doing, like if she is cooking, you can cut the vegetables or clean the plates. It will be easier for both of you and you would get some time together too.
Surprise Her
Girls love surprises! Make your wife happy by giving surprise gifts. It doesn’t need to be diamonds or costly gowns; the gift can be as small as a flower or a book by her favorite author. Even a small love-you note on the bathroom mirror will make her happy.
Confess Your Love
Even though she knows that you love her, hearing it will make her day, especially when you speak these words early in the morning. Wake her up by murmuring these sweet words in her ears and you will find her cheerful all day long, despite the workload. Call her sometimes, just to tell her that you were missing her and wanted to hear her voice. This will let her know that the main things that drive you is her love and that will make her immensely happy.
Never Take Her For Granted
When a relationship grows old, partners start taking each other for granted. The best thing you can do to make your wife happy and your relationship stronger is never to take her for granted. Tell her you are lucky to have her and appreciate the love she bestows on you. Thank her for all the selfless work she does and it will give her huge pleasure.
Spend Time With Her
Spending time together is one of the basic elements of a successful marriage. Even though both of you are busy in your respective careers, take out time for each other, as nothing is more important than love. If your offices are in neighborhood, make it a point to have lunch together at least once in a week. Spending time with her is the best gift you can give her, to make her happy.
Be Her Knight In Shining Armor
Most of the women want their man to be their hero. Strive to achieve this position in her eyes. Be brave, kind, loving, and gentle and your wife will adore you. Love her family and friends, be loyal towards her and maintain honesty in the relation, and you will keep her happy forever.