How To Be Beautiful

We know that beauty should not only be skin deep, it should run deep down. What is beautiful on the outside, can be ugly on the inside. The ugliness of the heart comes on the face eventually. To be a beautiful woman, you need to be a beautiful person and a compassionate soul. Nothing draws people more to you than your softness and genuineness.  Having said that, working upon external beauty and persona is not wrong; it is primarily important to boost your confidence. How courageously we face the world does, to a certain extent, depend on how confident we are about our looks. If we look groomed and presentable, then it will help us loosen our own inhibitions. Grooming the external beauty not only includes taking care of skin, hair, nails, etc. but, also calls for paying heed to your body language, personality and how you approach people. Appearance counts for a lot in today’s world. If you are shabby and you look un-kept, then there is a big possibility that you will lose out on a lot of opportunities, whether it is in your personal world or professional. Taking good care of oneself is a sign of a positive and high self-esteemed person. Not everything in your life should become about looks and appearances but a healthy amount of effort towards it is not wrong. Here are tips to enhance your beauty:

 

Look for the meaning of beauty. It is said that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Try and identify what is beautiful for you. Do you think beauty lies in the appearances or it lies in the thoughts or in actions? What holds the true representation of beauty for you? If beauty for you is an external concept then work on it. Groom it in whatever ways you like and enhance it to make it your strength. 

 

Once you have identified what does beauty means to you, try and figure out how you see that beauty in you. Devote some thoughts and time into the procedure. Observe yourself and most importantly, admire yourself. Do not try to find faults in yourself. Look at yourself with the eyes of a stranger and look for that beautiful feature in you which represents epitome of beauty for you. May be there is some aspect in you which you have missed all this while. May be your beauty lies in its subtlety. May be there is some feature of your physical attribute that you have missed out. May be it is your smooth and well-proportioned hands, flawless skin, perfectly shaped shoulders, etc. Figure it out and bring it to the fore front of your appearance by grooming and enhancing it.

 

Now you know what you like about yourself, put in hard work to make it perfect. If it is your physical appearance then put a healthy amount of time to make it better. Keep experimenting until you feel you have given your best features the efforts they deserve.

 

The next thing to do is to develop your inner beauty. To be beautiful, one needs to have a beautiful inner self as well. This is what makes the beauty last forever. So build your character honestly, thereby making yourself beautiful both on the inside and on the outside. For inspiration, remember your inner beauty will always radiate and never get faded.

Do not give in to the popular notions of beauty. Do not buy the ideas media is trying to sell to you. What is beautiful for you may contradict the popular notion. Just because consensus believes in something, does not mean that you will have to kill your individuality over it.  Wear the kind of make that suits you, not the kind that is set in the trends. Clothes and accessories should be the extension of your thoughts. Try to look natural and comfortable with yourself.

Follow a healthy routine. Include exercise, yoga and meditation into your daily routine. A healthy mind and body always comes across as beautiful. When you have a stable mind and attitude then everyone is bound to find you graceful and beautiful.

 

Maintain a regular hygiene routine, which is very essential in order to look beautiful. Keep your finger and toe nails trimmed. Brush your teeth daily and floss them when required. Bathe regularly and smell good. These are the basics of looking appealing and beautiful. If you lack in maintaining your personal hygiene, then it would not even matter if you have worked upon yourself and look beautiful appearance wise.

Have a positive outlook towards life and stay happy. Happiness exudes natural beauty, so avoid being sad at trivial things and enjoy life. Smile a lot. It is a true beauty enhancer. Smile is the first thing that people observe in you.

Intelligence and wisdom makes a person admirable and everyone seeks his/her company. You should work on becoming a knowledgeable person, so that people seek your company.