Men are as difficult to read as women. Breeze through this article to find for yourself ways to tell if a man is really in love with you or just looking to while away his time.

Signs A Man Is In Love

Does your man love you because you are beautiful, or do you seem beautiful to your man because he is in love with you? Well, every wise man’s son doth know that the man, who thinks of his woman as beautiful because he is in love with her, surely does love her more than he does anyone else. Love of this nature however is extremely hard to come by. Almost every other man you know and meet is just as shallow as the random men who leach at you as you walk down the roads they haunt. Fortunately however, every black cloud has a silver lining and this silver lining can easily translate into a man who loves you for you and not your looks, money or power. In love, there are well defined ways to tell if a man is really into you. Read on to discover valuable information on ways to determine if a man truly loves you. The following ways however can be extremely subjective. Ultimately, the onus lies on you to judge if your man is a keeper or is to be dropped like a hot potato.

Ways To Tell If A Man Is In Love
  • One of the surest ways to determine if a man love to you is to check for yourself if he keeps his promises. A man who loves a woman always keeps the promises he makes to her, well almost always at least.
  • A man sure is into you if he uses the words ‘we’, ‘us’ and ‘our’ when he talks about the future and what it promises for the both of you as a couple.
  • When at a table at a restaurant or when at the movies and if a real looker walks by, if your man does not move an inch, you can be rest assured he’s a keeper. To make sure for yourself, you can even ask your man to check out a hottie at the other end of the restaurant or the movie hall, and if he’s still not interested, by golly, you better not let go of your catch.
  • A man who loves you will never take you for granted! Period! No exceptions here, please!
  • Chivalry! Now that’s a trait that is slowly but surely bordering around the brinks of extinction. However, if a man loves a woman, truly does that is, he sure will be a lot more chivalrous around her than he is when around other woman.
  • You’re his first priority. Over work, over the gym, over the guitar, over family, over anything or anyone else, it’s always you who comes first. If this is the case with your man, you can take it for granted that he is in love with you and in all probability would love to spend the rest of his life with you.
  • Men love their mothers, and that’s a fact. However, if your man treats your mother just like he does, with love and respect, you’re simply fortunate enough to have a man who is actually truly, madly and deeply in love with you.
  • Men are possessive. If your man is truly in love with you, he may not be too happy with you getting too close for comfort with a male colleague or acquaintance. However, if your man’s possessiveness is maniacal and unjustifiable, you can by all means feel free to avoid him like you would the plague.
  • Last but not the least, a man who treats you with love and respect, who does small things to please you and who goes out of his way to keep you happy is surely in love with you. Here, however you will have to use your personal discretion to judge a man and his intentions. This is mostly because men are extremely adept at going the whole nine yards just to get into the pants of a woman.

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