Signs He's Using You

Being in a relationship is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world, provided the relationship is true. Though most of us would like to believe otherwise, there is still a significant proportion of men who never get serious in a relationship and often play with the emotions of a girl. How do you know whether the guy you are involved with really loves you or is just using you for passing time? Simple, by keeping your eyes open and reading the subtle signs coming your way. In the following lines, we have listed a number of signs that will help you in recognizing that a guy is merely using you.

Signs He's Using You

He has only short term plans about your relationship.
He gives no answer if you ask about what your relationship will be like, five years from now.
You don't know what he does when he is not around you. If you question him about this, he avoids the topic.
He is always anxious to keep the phone down and rarely talks for more than 5 minutes.
He is no longer interested in sex.
Phrases like 'I need some space' always crop up in his talks.
He picks up fight for either for no reason at all or at the most trivial topics.
Whenever you go on a date, he comes late almost always. On the other hand, if you come late by even a minute, he blows over.
He makes plans with you only at the last minute, as if nothing better came his way.
He doesn't remember your birthday/ anniversary.
You are the one who always pays, whether it is for a movie or a dinner
He spends a lot of time talking to other girls
He is never interested in meeting your friends or your parents
He never meets your gaze when he says 'I love you',
He never replies to your mails. The reason is always "I am busy in work".
He always avoids when you talk about meeting his friends or parents.
Whenever you are on a date, his friends always tag along.
He gives you one-shoulder hug or pats your back while hugging.
He never gives you a gift on your birthday or any holidays.

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