Serious Relationship Questions

You met in college and shared a good rapport as friends. You developed a great love interest and started dating. Since then, it’s been years and your relationship has become stronger and healthier. But you wish to take this loving relationship a step further culminating it into marriage. You even thought of talking to your partner about this but the fear of losing him/her as a lover stops you from moving ahead. Is that how you plan to continue your relationship for the rest of your life? Certainly not! Since you are at a stage where you need to know your lover seriously and find out whether he/she feels the same for you just as you do, you need to throw in some serious questions and get their answers. After all, the answers to these questions will help you figure out whether this romantic affair can be actually turned into a healthy married life or not. So, here’s presenting you some serious and deep questions, the answers of which are extremely significant for your relationship and the way to take your life from this point.

Serious Relationship Questions To Ask

Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

Are you comfortable talking about where our relationship is going?
Are you ready to commit to me?
Are you happy with me?
Why did your last relationship end? How did you cope with it?
What have you learned from your last relationship?
Do you want to marry me someday?
Do you want to change anything in this relationship?
How are we going to handle the finances if we live together?
Have you ever got physically abusive?
Who will we spend holidays with when we are married?
If one of my friends flirted with you, would you tell me?
How far apart in age would you like your children to be?
When do you see yourself having children?
How many children would you like to have someday?
How would you deal with a disagreement with one of my family members or friends?
Are you close to your parents?
Everyone has regrets about their past. Which is the one thing in your past you would like to change?
What according to you is a perfect life, and how you would you try to make it for yourself and me?
Are you a person who keeps enemies, grudges or any negative thoughts about a person?
If I were offered a promotion and had to move away, would you move with me?

Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

What are the three things you like in this relationship?
What would you do if there was a choice given between furthering your career and having kids?
If we were together and I had a horrible accident, that left me with a handicap or scars, what would you do?
Are you dominating?
Have you ever been unfaithful to me?
How do you like to have sex?
What is your idea of the “perfect” relationship?
What are your views on marriage?
What if I told you I never want to have kids?
What have you taken from your past relationship?
What if we were engaged and I lost my job? What would you do?
If you got pregnant by accident, what would you do? Abort or keep it?
Is this a serious relationship?
How do you want the wedding to be?
By what time would you want me to be back from work?
What's your idea of being happily married?
How many sexual partners have you had?
If you ever got into a disagreement with any one of my family members or best friends, how would you deal with it?
Would you ever consider moving in together, and if you do, how comfortable would you be with privacy?
How would you react if you caught me cheating?

With these serious questions to ask in a relationship, you will be able to find out the true person in your lover. Though it may seem tough, it would actually be worth the deal, given the fact that you are considering of taking the relationship to a next level!

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