How To Win Over A Guy

Men are weird beings. They consider women to be the most complicated beings who ever walked the surface of earth, but what they fail to understand is that each one of us on the planet is different, unique and equally enigmatic. Men find women different, because their brains are different from the men’s. And that obviously means that men are a mystery to women as well. One can never know how a man is going to respond to a situation. And “what attracts a guy” is as eternal a question for women as “what women want” is for guys. So let’s make an effort to understand men and see how they can be won over. They may be complicated and even demanding at times when it comes to women, but at the end of it all, they are what they are - only human. And hence understanding what they want and how they can be won over cannot be called rocket science. Just a little common sense and a will to understand is all what it takes to get your guy drooling over you.

 

The first thing to know when you intend to win over a guy is grace. It is your persona that attracts the guys most to you. Even looks are secondary. Because no matter how much guys pursue pretty-looking women, the ones they finally settle for are essentially the classy and graceful ones. Charm them with your body language, communication and non-obscene yet classy dressing.

 

This is another major criterion no one can debate. Guys fall for women who are presentable so that they can go out with them and make the jealous feathers of their friends aflutter. No guy wants to be with a girl who is an embarrassment either by way of her dressing or communication. And presentable obviously means the way you speak to his friends and family and obviously the way you talk to him when alone and when in company of others. He must feel respectable to be dating you.

 

You cannot fake your way around a man’s heart—not for long at least! He may fall for your fake antics initially and may find them cute and intriguing; they may even succeed in getting his attention in the beginning, but as soon as he finds out that you are a fake he would make a run for it, quite literally. And it is not just about him, it is also about meeting the guy who likes you for what you are and not for you want to be. Be yourself to find your kind of man.

 

Please cut the myth of playing hard to get. You must not be fully available to him at any cost or he might just consider you a disposable commodity, but at the same time acting all snooty is a complete turn off. Hold your ground and be dignified, but don’t get so unapproachable that the poor boy just gives up on you and elopes with the next cute thing he sets his eyes on.

 

Cut the crap - men don’t fall for dumb ones. You can be fragile and cute, but dumbness is a strict no-no. However, this does not mean you get all too geeky and eventually bore. Do not come across as extremely intelligent too. Instead, let him feel that he knows more than you (ego massage) but don’t be too dumb to handle.

 

A happy face attracts more attention than a drop dead gorgeous brooder. So make sure you stay happy and cheerful around your boy. Don’t giggle your way to nearest mental asylum, but don’t hold yourself back from laughing at the funny things.

 

Once he has his heart set on you, he would want you meet his friends and family and that is the ultimate test. If his friends fall for you, then there is nothing that can part you guys. So, be good to the folks and the friends and be game enough to strike up conversations and try gelling in with them with dignity.