Is your relationship with your lover losing its charm each passing day? Are you feeling unnecessarily guilty about the way your love relationship has been hitting a downward slope? Is your lover constantly criticizing you badly for all trivial or even significant things? You have come to know that your partner is two-timing you? When under such circumstances, it helps at times to trust your conscience when it coaxes you to dump your partner and move on in life.
It goes without saying that it is definitely easier said than done! But again remember that even ‘impossible’ says ‘I am possible’. How easy or how difficult it will be for you to fall out of love basically depends on how practically you view your love relationship. If you have a sinking feeling that there is no more left to your love life, there can be nothing better than to get over your love and move ahead. How? We will tell you. So read on.
First of all you have to understand and accept the fact that you deserve a lover who not only loves you, but also respects you. Occasional bickering is okay in any relationship. But in general your relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend should be fun, a vital element lacking in your current relationship.
Consider it a danger signal if your current lover is unnecessarily restricting you all the time or imposing unfair rules. For example asking you to wear only a certain kind of clothes, agree to all his / her opinions, not permitting interaction with people you like, etc. Understand that a relationship like this will only grow suffocating with time. Acknowledging it that moving out of the relationship on time will cause you less pain should prove to be of some help.
There is no need for blaming oneself unnecessarily for a failing love relationship. If you are constantly being held at fault, then review your partner’s faux pas also.
The longer you hold on to the idea that this person is perfect, the harder it'll be to get on with your life. It's completely possible that you're idealizing someone just so that you can have a fantasy to hold on to. So see the reality.
Distance yourself from your lover even if you do not want to. Keep in mind that remaining in touch with a person you want, but cannot have is not a good sign. Don’t go to places you know your lover frequents. In the meantime also analyze your love life in a rational way.
See other people with an open mind, if you come across somebody interesting. Do not agree to anybody who asks you out. With this new person, try out new things you had always wanted to but never found the time. Most importantly, stop secretly comparing this newcomer in your life with your lover.
Do all those things you know will make you feel good about yourself. This could be something like taking up a new hobby, attending parties, fine dining, etc. Life is short, remember? So do not waste it yearning for somebody who does not care two hoots about you. You deserve better.