Aries - the first of the zodiac signs symbolizes the start of something new. If you have the flowers of love starting to blossom up in your heart and are looking for something new, then what better way to start it with someone who’s adventurous and energetic, pioneering and courageous, enthusiastic and confident, and dynamic and quick witted; for these are the traits that separate an Arian from the rest of the crew. Known to be independent personalities with a go-getter attitude, Arians often attract others to follow their lead with their perfect leader-like confidence and dynamism. They are attracted towards adventure and love being the centre of attention. Though often termed as blunt, Arians tend to be good and loyal friends ready to stand up for their sake whenever there’s a problem, calming and encouraging them up with their optimism. Professionally, they are goal-oriented risk takers and have a tendency to dive right into the proposition whenever hit by an idea, without thinking about the ramifications at all. Arians are often charged guilty of low tolerance level for tediousness and leaving things or ventures incomplete. They’re also egocentric and don’t like to be told what to do. Due to this, they end up being on the bad side of people, and are also prone to frequent outbursts of anger if they don’t have it their way. If you are head over heels with an Arian are looking for a way to attract him/her, read further.
Attracting An Arian
Be The Sidekick
Play second fiddle to their stardom. Arians love to be the centre of attraction and nothing gives them a better start, than applauds and accolades from people around them. Even if you’re equally popular or admirable, don’t try taking that stardom away from them. Tell them you admire them for their candid behavior and their go-getter approach towards life. Doesn’t matter if they’ve heard it a thousand times over; tell them about all things that you find good and noteworthy about them. A new fan never hurts. But avoid making stuff up; only say what you mean and feel, lest they catch you with your insincerity.
Don’t hesitate to bring your problems to the Arians. They’re loyal friends and will do anything to help you out, be it with their time, money, or just sympathy. If you need some serious advice about something or if some decision is needed to made, bring it right up and you won’t be disappointed. They’ll provide you with sure shot answers and solutions as Arians don’t know the midway. You’ll get your help and they’ll get their dose of “being in demand”.
Keep It Exciting
Arians despise falling into a routine filled with boredom and repetitiveness. They snap right out of proceedings if they feel but a little that this thing no longer excites or makes them want to go all guns. Often times they’ve been put under scrutiny for leaving things undone or relations in a heartless way. Keep things fun and exciting for the both of you by suggesting new ways of spending time together and letting them take the lead. Never talk about the same stuff over and over again, but keep changing the topic. Don’t keep agreeing with them, make mention of your opinion or they’ll get bored of too much agreement too.
Don’t Be Bossy
Don’t try to turn Arians into pushovers by dictating terms to them. They just don’t know how to take orders and like to have their own way around. You’ll probably have to perform an inception on them in order to make them think that the idea to do something generated from their own minds. They are independent lions and don’t like to be turned into tamed circus lions or they’ll end up snapping right at you with their fiery rage.
Crux of attracting an Aries being – pay tribute to their stardom, keep the mundane out of your relationship, trust on their friendship while confronting your problems, and don’t try to play the big boss.