So you have been eyeing this cute guy for while and even had the guts to strike up a casual conversation with him. A few meetings later, you feel like asking him out for a dance. Now the only problem is you want to make it special and don’t want to spoil it by becoming nervous. Have you been seriously racking your brains as to how to ask a guy to a dance? If so, we come to your rescue. There are many different ways for asking a guy out for a dance. All you need to do is pick up the one that suits you and your guy the best.
Tips for Asking a Man to Dance
- First of all, be confident but don’t come across as cocky. There is a difference between being confident about yourself and coming across as arrogant. Put up a smile on your face, pull back your shoulders and look directly in the eyes of the guy and simply ask him.
- If you want to make a bit flashy, do this. Take a stuffed toy, preferably a cute frog that has a crown. If it doesn’t, make one yourself with construction paper. Hang a small locket on its neck that says, “Of all the frogs in the pond, I want you to be my Dance Prince”.
- The best way to approach a man to dance is by simply asking. Of course, that doesn’t mean that you barge in the question at one go. Strike up a casual conversation and on the pretext of discussing something music or dance, ask him if he would like accompany for a small dance.
- Most chances are that the guy would say yes. Control yourself and don’t go around screaming your lungs out. Just keep your cool and say it would be great.
- Next, decide on who will pick up whom or where will you meet. Decide on the venue and the time you would meet. Also, decide if you want to have dinner outside or just a few drinks and a dance.
- In case the guy says no (I pray he doesn’t!), keep your calm and just find someone else who would love to dance with you. The mantra is to keep trying. Don’t get emotional and cry and call names. Imagine if the guy did that to you!
