Probably, that shoulder, no more seems to be yours. Recollection of the happy times, when you used to hold hands while finding the entire world in each other’s eyes, fails to bring you closer to him/her. Undoubtedly, loving someone and then loosing your beloved without any substantial reason fills the hearts of lovers with pain, but how about the people who are undergoing such turmoil. Actually it is very painful; you loved your partner and suddenly some misunderstandings cropped up. And your relationship has reached to the edge of separation but somewhere in your heart, you still desire this relationship to work. Perhaps it is difficult to communicate; however, nothing is impossible and you’re the one who has to take the initiative.
Think Over the Qualities
The first thing you have to do for making your failing marriage work is mull over your partner’s qualities. While struggling through conflicts and disagreements, it could be difficult to think about good traits but you must do. It’s a human tendency that we forget about the past but you must remember the traits of your partner which brings you closer to him/ her. It will act like an inspiration in retrieving your relationship.
Exchange A Few Words
Communication is the best healer. Probably you don’t want to see that face but you have to speak up and ask about the problems. You must discuss the problems amongst yourselves and see if anything works out. Try to make changes and sort out the problems. Be honest and communicate whatever problem you have. Whatever your partner has spoken to you regarding problems, think where you are wrong and how can you improve upon it.
Give Time to Each Other
After speaking, give time to each other to work over the problems. Start spending time together, like; you can go for a movie, dinner, vacation or any other thing, which keeps you guys closer. Otherwise, you can always take out one or two hours from your busy routine for your partner to give your relationship a happy reason to revive once again.
Learn To Ignore
This doesn’t mean that you’ve to ignore your partner but the problem which arise from time to time. Learn to ignore the irritating habits, conflicts and disagreements because such things, if considered much, aggravate the situation. Nobody is perfect. Keep this statement in mind, and work constantly to get over with the fight and issues.
Give Some Space
No matter how strong the relationship is, one must always give his/her partner some space to let the things work lifelong. Don’t interfere in each other’s professional work, however, you can give suggestions if your partner likes. Be it relatives or friends; there should be freedom for both to enjoy other people’s company.
Light the Candle of Romance
If you actually love your partner, show him/her how hard you’re trying to fix this relationship. After a span of time, romance and passion usually go astray. Try to bring back romance in your lives. For example, plan a date, night or any time that you’ll spend together. Come up with creative ideas to get closer to each other.
For sure it will take time for the things to get back to normal. You require time, dedication and more importantly, the will to make you relation work. Remember ‘Nothing is Impossible’ and you can too, get the things turn your way.