Dating is something on which millions of books have been penned worldwide and no matter how much you are prepared, you are sure to get nervous on your date. You must have met him/her and have been completely swept off your feet. Finally, he/she has agreed to come to a date with you. You want this night to be the most special day of your life and want very badly to impress him/her to further this relationship. Just taking her to a fancy restaurant or wearing a plunging neckline for him will not get you a second date; you need to follow a certain rules to get him/her to go out with you on a second date and to be able to impress him/her. Explore the following pointers to know how to impress a date.
Tips For Impressing A Date
The most important thing, which you have to do, is to be yourself. It may be difficult when the person sitting in front of you has been your dream date and has finally agreed out on a date with you after a long persuasion. However, remember that trying of being someone is no use, as your true self will show somehow. Smile and be yourself and that is sure to win your date over. Some people also try to portray an image, which seems perfect, however remember that you won’t be able to live up to it all your life. So never, in any case try to give your date any false impression.
Confidence Is The Key
Confidence will attract your date as a moth to a flame. Everyone enjoys being in a company of someone who is secure, self reliant and poised. Be confident, look in his/her eyes and have polite conversations. Remember that being confident doesn’t translate to being arrogant. Take pride in whatever you do for a living but don’t be boastful. Your date shouldn’t feel that you are love-struck and would do anything for them. Remember he/she should respect you and unless you don’t respect yourself people will not respect you.
Don’t Spill All Your Beans
Women or men, everyone digs mystery. So instead of spilling all your beans on the first date itself, keep some for other time. Never in any case divulge too much information about yourself. Craft a mystique around you, be a little illusive, and see your charisma getting spread. Keeping your ears wide open and your mouth shut is the key to win over him/her.
Nobody likes a date, which looks like as he/she has just sauntered from college with a crumpled tee with greased jeans. Every person wants their date to be smartly dress in matching and fitting clothes. You don’t necessarily have to wear a Armani suit or Prada’s evening wear, a simple but elegant outfit would be enough to impress your date.
Everyone fantasizes his or her date that is gentle and courteous. Just ask yourself, “Would you date a man who is sailor mouthed?” or “Would you fancy going out on another date with a girl who is potty-lipped?” So remember to be courteous when you are on your date. Inculcate good behavior and manners in you and be a gentleman or a well-mannered woman.
Unless you have fun, there is no point in going out with a person. Therefore, no matter how cautious you are and how much you want to impress your date, you need to have fun. Crack jokes and show him/her your funny side. Everyone digs a date, which is fun to be with. However, trying to be fun to your date, don’t forget that your date should also be fun for you.