When your girlfriend finally dumps you and moves on in life, you wonder whether what you had with her was real in the first place. Maybe you did and somewhere along the way, you or she probably made a mistake. After a period of fairytale romance, the reality slowly started dawning upon you. You two were no longer perfect for each other. Rather, you started seeing more and more of each other’s flaws, rather than positive qualities. Finally, things worsened so much that she broke up with you and bid adieu. The moment she left, you realized how much she meant to you and how much you want her to be a part of your life. But now, is it too late. Is it really? If she put up with you for so long, she must have loved you truly and love never dies. This time, try and make amends and get her back into your life. How, you ask? We will tell you, just read on and get inspired by the simple steps given below.
How To Get Your Girlfriend Back
Analyze Your Mistakes
It doesn’t matter who did the breaking up. The point is, if you have made mistakes along the way that contributed or led to the break-up then probably you are equally at fault. Now would be a good time to make amends and reflect on your mistakes. If you think you have made way too many mistakes, then apologize for your mistakes. Remember, it is never too late!
Don’t Play The Blame Game
When you just got dumped and you are brooding over what you did to deserve this, you might find yourself battling your emotions at times and also losing your temper. It is very likely at this point you might start the ‘blame-game’. If in case you are really in love with your ex-girlfriend and you want her back in your life, you have to make sure to keep your calm and not say anything brash that might ruin your chances at having a second chance at the relationship. This is not the time to blame each other for mistakes, but the time to make amends.
Get In Touch
Once you have sorted yourself (emotionally), get in touch with your ex. Do not be afraid of getting rejected, because if she does that, then she never really belonged to you in the first place. Thus, if she is not showing apparent signs of not wanting to talk to you, give it a go! Email her, send her an SMS or call her once or twice. If she doesn’t respond, then let her be for a while. But, if she does, then there is nothing like it! The point is not to get too overly possessive or creepy. Give her some space and she will come around.
The ‘Green’ Game
If you are planning on making her ‘green’ or jealous, then now might be a good time. Although, this may not always lead to pleasant consequences, it is okay and pretty natural to make your ex-girlfriend jealous, by showing her that you are happy in your life and that you are ‘moving on’. Just don’t go overboard while trying to make her feel jealous like indulging in one-night-stands or dating other women, because she might just end up doing the same. Don’t just cut off from your ex-girlfriend at this point of time. Remain cordial, but give her the impression that ‘all is well’ in your world.
Remember Important Dates
If you are planning to get your ex-girlfriend back and you want her for the long term, then it is very important for you to remember the important dates like birthdays. Every girl wants to be the center of attention and likes to be treated like a princess on the day of her birthday, and if you are looking for the long term, it will not hurt you to be the first one to send her an SMS, a card, tweet or call her up on her special day. If anything, it will only make her realize how special her birthday is and what it means to you.
Get Her Gifts
No girl can resist gifts. Although, it might seem like you are impressing her in the first place, sooner or later, she will realize that you were getting her gifts to get her back into your life and wish to make her happy. Be it the graduation, birthday or any other special day in her life; make sure you get her something. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy or pricey. Always remember, that it is the thought that counts!
Tell Her The Truth
Finally, tell her the truth. It will not hurt to push your ego aside for a day and pour your heart out. Telling her that you love her and how much she means to you might actually get her to realize what she was missing in her life after the breakup. After all, at the end of the day, every girl wants to be the center of the universe for a person at some point of time in their lives. You do not necessarily have to be cheesy, while expressing what you feel. Just be honest and upfront, without becoming overtly emotional.
After all this, if your ex-girlfriend still does not want you back in her life, then move on! Maybe she wasn’t the right person for you in the first place. There is no point in hurting yourself and not being social anymore because you feel miserable. Go out and get back into the game.
Here are a few pointers on how to get the girl back into your life. Go through this article once again and give it your best shot. All the best!