Needless to say, every human being has the same desires, irrespective of cultures, education level, and economic status - to love, to be loved, and to be happy. Though you can add on other desires, such as money, wealth and fancy things, but the reason for wanting them narrows us down to be finally loved and accepted. Hence, if love is fundamentally so important, why is it that we are engrossed with so many issues and misunderstandings regarding finding true love? Why do people complain and whine about love? May be, because they consider love to be a need and desire instead of passion and obsession. Thus, true love happens when you are at your 100% and ready to find your perfect match amongst the crowd. To find the secret recipe of preparing that passionate and craving love sauce, aka true romance, steer through the following lines.
Finding True Love
Love Yourself First
If you’ve been considering this tip to be utilized only whilst overcoming a breakup, think again. Apart from helping in the healing process from love lost, the art of loving yourself is highly useful in finding true love also. For, if you cannot accept, respect, and love yourself, you cannot allow others to love you. Being simply dependent upon others will be of no benefit to you or to your newly found love. Two independent beings make a better match as they are a stronger and larger bond. Hence, first practice loving yourself. For this, you can spend quality time with yourself, take yourself out for a date, do things that please and relax you, and practice saying ‘I love you’ to yourself whilst standing in front of the mirror.
While focusing on yourself, do not forget to make yourself a complete and happy person. Identify who you are and be prepared to face any opportunity coming your way. To prepare yourself, focus on your goals, concentrate on your career, tone up your body, stop smoking and drinking, improve your dressing sense, and organize your home. Though you will find many people crossing your way making endless efforts to attract you towards them, be open and ready to face them strongly. However, do not let all of them go, for you never know that your perfect soul mate may be just one of them.
Stop Seeking True Love
Yes, that’s right. Stop searching for true love out in the crowd. True love is not any charming accessory that you can find in one of those branded stores. As such, do not seek love, for it will follow you if you desire to find one. Though you can look out for love, but searching love should not be your focus.
Leave Behind Your Ex’s
Crying over previous unsuccessful relationships only adds to emotional baggage in your future relationships. Thus, forgiving your ex is the best liberating exercise to come out of those unresolved issues and contribute towards your own well-being. Sit down with your ex, if you have any, and sort out any misunderstandings amongst the two of you. This will help you to come out of it and leave behind the emotional baggage. Further, it will only lead you towards developing a strong and healthy relationship with your love.
Picture Your Ideal Mate
Accept it or not, each one of us bears a rough picture about our soul mate deep down in our hearts. We assume our ideal partner to be beautiful, smart, rich, educated, tall, handsome, pale, dark, fit, or petite. However, the problem arises when we are into a relationship and find that our partners do not fulfill the ‘perfect soul mate’ criteria we assumed. With this, we stop appreciating our partners even for all the beautiful qualities that they possess. Remember, there does not exist any such perfect person in this world. While all qualities are not possible to be found in one person, categorize your requirements by placing the most desirable ones on top and look out for a person possessing those qualities.