Libra is the only inanimate sign among all the zodiacs, others representing either an animal or a human. Figuratively, Librans are often referred to as jewels of the zodiac, as someone who exist to be admired. Charming and cheerful, balanced and just, energetic and affectionate, loving and patient, intuitive and idealist, and diplomatic and peaceful are some of the qualities that are often attached to Librans. If the one you’re attracted to possesses almost the same qualities as above, then there’s a good chance that he/she may be a Libran. A fine quality that Librans seem to possess is their unique ability to see the world from someone else’s eyes and acknowledge a different perspective, without tampering his/her own beliefs. With their eager to please and easy going nature, they make friends from all the walks of life. Librans are generally considered masters of relationships not just romantic ones, but those that they share with family, friends, and business clienteles because of their harmonious and peace loving nature. Librans are very intuitive and rely upon it to a great degree. They are artistic at heart and strive for something creative and this quality only comes into existence when other people come to know about their knowledge and wide array of interests and hobbies. On the flip side, Librans tend to be indecisive and let the decision making fall on someone else. They may also seem lazy to some, as Librans do not tend to want anything badly enough to fight for it. From the inside, they tend to be insecure and lack confidence in their own abilities and are always looking for someone to complete them. Librans are always yearning for love and approval from others. They also strive for a fairy tale type of romance - although they know that such love and romance does not exist in actuality, it doesn’t stop them from waiting for the love of their life to come along someday. Now that you know much about what it is that keeps them going, read further to know about how to attract a Libra.
Tips On Attracting A Libra
They might have attracted you first with their cheerful easy to tag along nature but now it’s up to you to reciprocate. Engage them in a light conversation about anything and make them see the world from your own eyes as Librans tend to have an open mind about everything and love to listen to a different perspective. When done away with the conversation, try to focus the remaining of it on them and ask about their likes and dislikes, hobbies and interests and share your insights on what impression that gave you, for Librans as discussed earlier, love to have a different perspective.
Librans tend to be indecisive. Listen to their point of way and give them your helping hand. Don’t criticize on their inability to make a decision as this will just lower them down, but help them arrive to some definite possibility about what they can do about a certain thing. Don’t dictate things, rather lay them gently in their hands, supporting throughout. They’ll be happy in their hearts that you took control and helped them get over something that they found hard.
After your friendship with them has reached a certain comfort level, they may share with you about their insecurities and ask your opinion as to what should be done. Give them a loving and supportive hand, and accept their insecurities. Tell them you believe in their abilities and that they can easily be where they want to be. By now, they would have fairy tales running inside their minds as they are complete romantics at heart, and even might have starting weighing possibilities about you being their potential prince or princess. Don’t just play with hearts by portraying something that you’re not. Move further into the relation, only if you feel that they are the ones you had been waiting for. Share their insecurities and fears, make them your own. Tell them they’re not alone and you’ll never leave them; sometimes this is all the comfort they need. Keep doing special things for them but at the same time allow for them some space, where they can be with themselves. Try to avoid any quarrels or fights over little issues as they don’t like being in any. Remember, they are peaceful and harmonious people.
You don’t need a magic wand to attract a Libran. What you need is right here - keep them engaged, hold their hands in distress, and tell them in a loving way that you’re there. The magic will happen on its own!