You have spotted a beautiful girl at a party, family get together or even in the mall and you want to ask her number but are not quite sure what to do. Don't just stand there speechless; follow these steps to ask for a girl's number.
- First of all you need to approach her. Also, remember that you need to maintain eye contact with her along with a gentle smile. Make sure that you don't keep staring at her, as there is a very subtle difference between making an eye contact and a constant stare.
- The next step involves entering into a communication with her. You can start off by giving her a compliment or two and then introduce yourself. But, please do not go overboard with this, because if you try to be too cute, it might not seem so attractive to her.
- Start talking. After a little while, you will get to know the level of interest that she holds for you and whether she would actually give her phone number to you, if asked. There are certain signs that you can look out for. If, for example there is no eye contact or smile from her, while you are making a whole-hearted effort, probably, you should move on. She might not be interested at all.
- However, if she does seem interested, now is the time to ask for her number. Ask politely but don't be too pushy about it. Also, respect her privacy and avoid questions like "How about giving me your number?" Instead, what you can actually say is something like "It would be great to know you better. Is there a number where I can reach you?"
- If everything has been going well up until now, you have probably got her number. Offer your own phone number to her if you are comfortable doing so. There are some men who offer their numbers even if the women denies, since some women are not comfortable with giving their numbers.
Remember, it is not that hard to ask a girl for her number if you know the right way of approaching things.
