If you are wondering what a date rape is, the answer is that it is basically a non-consensual sexual activity between two people, who are known to each other, either platonically or sexually. The rapist can be anyone, compulsorily a man, while the rape victim can be either a man or a woman. Around fifty to seventy five percent of all the reported rape cases are date rapes. Though not all friendships, acquaintances and dates lead to violence, but at times it does. It does not matter whether two people already knew each other or have had sex before.
Anyone forcing a sexual act on a known person is date raping. It is an act of aggression and violence. Moreover, date rape has got nothing to do with what kind of relation exists between two people. The fact is that no person owes sex to the other person and it should not be forced. It can be the outcome of an unhealthy relationship, which doest not involve mutual respect and care. Quite a number of times, date rape take place under the influence of drugs and alcohol. Thus, the best way to protect yourself is to avoid its occurrence.
Date Rape Prevention
- Do not venture into isolated places, until your partner is trustworthy.
- Do not stay alone with somebody who makes you feel uneasy or uncomfortable. Exit any situation you feel you are not comfortable in.
- Be aware of the situation around you and try to stay in control.
- Be clear about the kind of relationship you want to have with another person.
- If you are not sure, ask the other person to give you time. Don't allow yourself to be subject to peer pressure or encouraged to do something that you don't want to do.
- Don't hesitate to ask for help if you feel threatened.
- Resort to self - defense measures. This will enhance confidence as well as teach valuable physical techniques which will prove to be helpful in case of an attack.
